DON'T THINK YOU CAN CHANGE HIM THEREAFTER

I met my husband just over 20 years ago, said Susan, trying to put me in the picture of how she would come to loose her self respect and dignity, because she couldn’t say no to an emotional abuser like her husband. He had one or two girlfriend at the same time when we were courting but I fell pregnant, so we got married, she explained.

Years after we discover we weren’t just compatible, he didn’t stop womanizing and treated the house as a transit camp so we decided to get a divorce or better put, he wanted his freedom. In spite of the divorce, we

WHAT IF YOU ARE BEING USED

It is one thing that lives with us; you’d just realize the person you thought you had something good to do with is only using you to satisfy his/her selfish ends. Often, we hear people being used and dumped. He/she becomes nice and so friendly because of what they can possibly gain from you. Once they get it, your existence becomes a story. I assume nobody would want to wish this to even his farthest acquaintance, it is something