BE REAL: Always see yourself as created with uniqueness, having no
reason to imitate someone’s social, educational or moral background. Your
creator who made you and placed you in that level knows its best for you. The
fact is that someone that gets attracted to you at first sight is not looking
at any other thing in you at that particular point in time except the ‘U in U’.
I’ve heard ladies say most times; I like hanging out with the high class so I
can get a grip of their status. The truth is this-painting your body with dark
spots can never make you a leopard; you are only making a mockery of yourself
by simply social climbing. No matter how hard you press, there are things the
high class do that you cannot do, there are places they enter that you cannot.
It costs nothing to be original but everything to fake. There’s an African
adage that says “he who makes his problem
known gets the solution”. In the process of trying to go western (claiming
to belong where you do not), yes, you may likely get what you wished but never
forget to maintain that status because any day it crashes, the cat will be let
out of the bag for all I know is that any relationship built on lies doesn’t
last.
FACE REALITY: A recent study conducted on some ladies shows that 85% of
them feel happier hearing/listening to what they desire to hear, positive
appraisals and the like. They love to be flattered more than they love making
it real; little wonder that the guy with the sweetest mouth wins the girl with
lightest brain. He tells you how cute you are when in reality, you see yourself
in the mirror and the cuteness becomes a mirage. Do not misunderstand me here
for I am not against admiration, encouragement or making people come alive but
when it comes to flirting, you better watch your back. Watch and analyze
critically, that guy that says; this your dress combination do not match, I
think a combination of this and that colour would have been better, also, your
hairdo is quite fine but a glint of red ribbon to go with the red shoe would
make a perfect outfit. He is not only correcting you but representing the so
many eyes that will have a glimpse of you along the way. Usually, the
sugar-mouthed guy always has something in mind, not to displease her so I can
get what I want (provided he is still wooing). Before you accept any offer,
check out those characters that make him real.
BE CLASSICAL: Despite how long a man chooses to
flirt, whenever he wants to settle down, he goes for classy ladies. It doesn’t
cost a fat bank account to become one, as a matter of fact, if you are virtous,
determined and courageous, you are already on your way to becoming classical.
Being a strut or swagger will only make you too noticeable and if care is not
taken, an object of caricature, yes, you get attracted to your swagger-like
foes but what do you expect when you get along with such people, they exhibit
the stuff they are made of when you turn them off. Maturity is only in the
brain.
BE COMPOSED: Generally, men enjoy staying with
women that can take control when situations/circumstances overturn. Save that
it is in the nature of women to feel insecured more than men. Your composure
sends a signal to him; you can always take charge when he is not around, you
can always wake up to the challenge when the unexpected happens.
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