Hello good people,
How has your day been? I believe you may have achieved set out goals even when there are lots of them underway.
As I was watching an animal documentary on courting, territory and parenting one day, I realised we humans exhibit similar courting behaviour with animals. That does not mean we are animals in the common sense. Kindly read and share with me on what I call the misunderstood 3 in a man's character.
STABILITY: Stability here simply means being calm and reasonable. It is true that some people believed that when a man is calm in a relationship, it means he is not taking it serious. No, the truth is far fetched. Calmness sometimes doesn't really mean he has nothing to offer, it could mean he is taking his time so as to minimize mistakes. A man's quiet moment is his most reasonable moment. One shouldn't be an all time socialite, there are times when you really need to commune with your inner most self, hover within your spirit but at the same time, not making her feel rejected.
TOUGHNESS: I want to state categorically here that being tough does not translate to excessive meanness, being a bully or turning her into a punching bag. There are times when you have to disagree, maintain your manliness, not always giving in just to please her. Stand your ground when its necessary. To be frank with you, it doesn't always make you a man to concur to everything your partner says but while you are being tough, do not loose your sense of tenderness.
EMOTIONS: This has to come last so you better understand the combination. It is not in the nature of men to be as emotional as women, they are designed to always mean business, take the bull by the horns, accepting either life or death in anything they do but I think healthy emotions is a sweet spice in any relationship. Emotions could come in form of cares and affections. By so doing, you still make her feel loved. Ahealthy emotion when shown at the appropriate time can never be mistaken for weakness.
Thanks for you time.
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