Setira thought she was having the fun of her life when she
kept attending parties all over town with her female friends. Her life was
always filled with what friends were thinking, talking or doing and most times,
there was always a party to attend. And she did that irrespective of what her
husband said or did forgetting that one day, things will get to a head.
Often times people make avoidable mistakes capable of causing
a disaster which leads to a lifetime regret. It is common rule referring the
human behaviour that people learn from mistakes but is it everybody that learns
from mistakes? A philosopher once quoted that the best way to learn from
mistakes is to learn from that which others have made. If this advise has been,
is and always taken serious, I doubt if their would be replication of errors.
It is always advisable to avoid relationship mistakes as
relationship is a union of two people; thus, a mistake committed will affect
atleast one of the parties. Certain mistakes might lead to unfixable breakups
and feeling guilty thereafter may not help.
Marriage or mutual agreement of getting into relationship is
not a license to express as you feel it rather a commitment to accept and
tolerate someone you barely know. Remember both of you were neither born of the
same parents nor bred under the same roof, so you are bound to be of divergent
views. The tendency to be provoked increases when you live in the same house
with an opposite sex who does not understand your lifestyle.
In the case of Setira (though newly wed), she was simply
doing what she enjoys doing, catching fun and ensuring she hangs out with
friends. A good relationship should not necessarily tie you down or limit your
activities but when the happiness of your partner is jeopardized, you better
watch your back. There are a million ways to come to a mutual agreement such
that you don’t get restricted to what you used to do, and that is why communication
and understanding becomes an intrigue part of any relationship.
However though, if that lifestyle is a threat to your
relationship, would it not be right to adjust it so as to let peace reign? If you
think that which you are doing is similar to Setira’s, a whole new adaptation
will surely rejuvenate your relationship.
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