REASONS SOME WOMEN DUMP THEIR MEN

Chris has never imagined any woman could leave him for any reason. He was rich, handsome and had a sex appeal that women moon over. He has had the best women around and after playing the games, decided it was time to settle down. He met Tracy whom he considered his ideal woman and proposed after four months of courtship. She accepted and the marriage preparations commenced.

Somehow along the line, Tracy began to develop a cold feet, she realized that getting married to Chris wouldn’t only mean loosing her identity but much more. As the marriage date drew closer, she realized she couldn’t go ahead with it and not knowing how else to go about it i.e. telling him, she chose the only option she could handle; she disappeared on her wedding day and left her man stranded on the alter.

Break-ups and heart breaking for both men and women; yet, men and women dump partners at all times. There can be reasons or no reasons at all. Whatever it is, very fewer relationships are found to be ever sustaining and ever progressing. Women, many times, drop the relationship for obvious reasons. They are sensitive to the core and at the same time, bold to the extreme. They tend not to forget trivial mistakes, unforgivable actions can be ignored by them. The unpredictability of women makes it harder to analyze the most common reasons for them dumping their men. Each woman approaches relationships in a subjective way, thus what makes a serious reason for a woman to dump her man may seem ignorable by another.

Secondary or multiple affairs of men constitute a reasonable cause for many women dumping their men. Cheating or breaking trust is unforgivable for many of them and when found that the man is dating someone else too, they are most likely to avoid the man.

Another trust related reason is telling lies or pretending to be what you aren’t. Some men try to continue a relationship by twisting facts over and again just to cover their shortcomings. When men do not adhere to promises or commitments, it is considered as an act of distrust. Women generally, do not tolerate someone they can’t trust.

Another factor is when a woman feels that the man is becoming a control freak, enjoy ruling over everything without giving her a chance to exercise her own right, she may possibly get away from the relationship. Though men are and should be naturally authoritarian, excessive exhibition of this trait becomes a turn off. Dominance over her personal life is a feature most women detest from men. Suffice it to say that women are meant to be submissive but not to the detriment of their own freedom.